Learning is difficult in beginning of BJJ
Time always catches up in BJJ! Brazilian jiu-jitsu happens in real time, so there are always new decisions to be made. We prefer to make proactive choices wherever we can, but with resistance in the mix, you also have to become comfortable with reactive choices (where you don’t initiate the action but must still work to advance your plan anyway). Proactive or reactive, ‘bad” decisions happen when you’re in a rush and can’t process information fast enough. You miss an important part of the signal and head off in the wrong direction. This happens in guard-passing, when the passer can change directions faster and with greater ease than the guard player and clears the legs as a result. Panic also inhibits good decisions, leading to a freak out and a cascade of emergency choices that are less than optimal. Bad decisions also happen when the effects of your choices aren’t evident right away – you’re swayed by short-term comfort and ignore long-term repercussions. Exploding out of the mount works until it doesn’t. Many bad decisions work out OK in the short run because you can be short-term successful…but time often changes changes this. To work on making better long-term decisions requires elevating the value of the long run. It can be worthwhile to sacrifice immediate gratification, to look closely at the gap you’re covering up and the mistakes you make. With attention, you can start this process where you are and learn do it regardless of how much noise there might be around instant results.
Changes in BJJ harder than they first appear. The definitely can be harder than you thought. Changes, in the form of new technical additions to your arsenal, or more farther-reaching adjustments to perspective or strategy, are often more difficult than they first appear. This usually equates to a struggle. We work to refine and adjust one thing at a time until we end up with something we can use. The problem is that our fantasies about how change happens are just that – fantasies. We’re surprised that hand fighting to a collar grip is so tough. We think we’ll be ready to roll out a new D’arce defense after a few times practicing it. We are not masters of the guillotine in 3 days. And so on. It can be discouraging. But if you struggle without quitting, you will make it into the next phase of development. That space is where you can refine and polish these new changes and turn them into something really meaningful for your practice long term. Here at Savarese BJJ (www.njbjj.com) Academy, we try to teach our students to ALWAYS think long term. What happens on a tuesday night in March when you are a bluebelt, no matter how bad you think it is at the time, will not be remembered as a brown and blackbelt. Just keep showing up.
Students and teachers in BJJ is always a great subject to discuss. There is good, but can be bad between students and teachers if loyalty isn’t produced by either side. Some of my happiest coaching memories come from watching my students teach. I have always been insistent on the idea that my students have a deep understanding of the underlying principles and concepts that underlay our approach to the game and that they be capable of explaining them well to others. As a result, my students can in almost every case, do a fine job of teaching our methods and philosophy to students of all levels and backgrounds. Here at Savarese BJJ Academy (www.njbjj.com). I try to get my students to start teaching at purplebelt. It gives them a better understanding of our concepts and by having to answer questions of the newer students, it makes them think about the techniques and concepts in a more in-depth fashion. In particular, most of my purple and brownbelt students have a complete and deep knowledge of my approach to art art of Brazilian Jiu-Jitsu and self defense. I would also go further and say that all of them have developed an independence and originality of thought that has taken them beyond my teachings and into their own distinctive style. I have watched my students teach and am constantly amazed by the maturity and depths of their views and their skill at conveying it to others. They all take immense pride in their knowledge and constantly work to refine and improve it. It is no exaggeration to say they are light years ahead of where I was after a similar time spent in training. This bodes well for the future of our Academy as they have so much more time to develop their skills and knowledge. All have started as beginners teachers, just like as students, and I can attest to how much learning material they offer when they teach. I love to watch them teach so that you can learn more about their method and philosophy. Watching and correcting and suggesting new things to them will help them going forward but only teaching creates the framework for the health and growth of the sport into the future.
I like to talk about Varations in BJJ. Variation: A common strand of thinking that I observe in coaches and athletes is the idea that there is a correct way of performing a given move and any deviation from that is a step in the wrong direction. This kind of sentiment works well in a beginners class where you are trying to give students a firm foundation upon which to take their first steps, but as you progress higher in the sport, there comes a realization that there is almost always more than one correct way of performing that move. Much more important than the move itself is the set of mechanical principles that underlay eachmove. beginner students try to stay true to the move as it was originally taught to them, but more advanced students try to stay true to the underlying principles behind the move and go from there. This allows them considerable leeway in their actual performance of any given move so that fascinating variations and improvisations can occur, but which still work in accordance with the essential mechanical foundations upon which the move is based. This sometimes has amusing consequences – you will see a beginner claiming a world champion is performing a move incorrectly because he is using a variation different from the one he was shown, but in truth, that champion is operating in accordance with the same over arching principles.
Intentions vs. Goals in Jiu-Jitsu: Intentions vs. goals is something we speak about a lot at Savarese BJJ academy (www.bergencountybjj.com). Because the submission is usually so heavily weighted, in jiu-jitsu we can have a tendency to develop a very strong goal-orientation. Goals can be critical tools when you have a specific outcome you want. But they can work against you if the rigidity of fixed goals grow into sources of anxiety and procrastination. Instead of worrying about needing to make things follow a specific path or go a certain way, put less attention on the GOAL and instead focus on your INTENTION for each training session. Why are you on the mat today? You may find that loosening a hyper-focused grip on your goals frees you from needing things to turn out exactly as you planned, and leaves you open to a different kind of training and learning. Focus on this and let me know if your training improves!
Originally developed by the Gracie family for smaller guys in the country of Brazil, Brazilian Ju-Jitsu has evolved into an effective self defense system, a thriving sport, and an essential component of Mixed Martial Arts fighting (MMA).
Gracie Jiu-Jitsu does not incorporate many of the fancy movements and complicated theories that other martial arts employ. In the real world, most fights end up on the ground and you have to be prepared for that scenario. The Savarese Brazilian Jiu-Jitsu Academy teaches practical self defense techniques with a no attitude, no ego mentality.
Students learn sport aspects and practical methods that don’t require strength or athletic ability. Brazilian Jiu-Jitsu was made for everyone.
A typical class begins with a light warm up and stretch. Once everyone is loose, instructor Chris Savarese teaches students practical techniques and delivers personal care to ensure the class is learning and applying. Once the technique has been covered, live sparring for students who wish to participate is permitted. With Gracie Jiu-Jitsu, live sparring is an integral part of the art and what separates Brazilian Jiu-Jitsu from most other martial arts. In Gracie Jiu-Jitsu, sparring is encouraged and fun!
The benefits of our Brazilian Jiu-Jitsu and Self Defense programs are endless! A greater sense of self leads to positive results in a world full of challenges. Our staff’s lineage goes directly back to the Gracie Family who created the art. Teach your children that perseverance wins over any obstacle in life, and let our program prove it to them! Develop functional muscles, not bulky, do-nothing muscles! Anyone who has trained at our academy for over a year will tell you that their life has been drastically improved!
If you want to join the fastest growing BJJ Academy on the East Coast, Savarese BJJ is waiting for you!
Last night, Ariana Zeppetelli becomes Savarese Jiu-Jitsu’s (www.njbjj.com) only female blackbelt! It was special for many reasons. Along w teammate Leo Alves, they became the 1st 2 blackbelts that started from our kids program. They also became the 2 youngest people to ever receive a blackbelt from me. It was a honor to tie this belt around the waist of someone who has become like a daughter to me, but also the epitome of true Gracie Jiu-Jitsu, a blackbelt that excels in ALL areas of Jiu-Jitsu, passing, guard, near perfect fundamentals and self-defense. She is also one of the hardest working people I know. She gave a beautiful speech, talking about how she grew up in our Academy, and that many of the good things instilled in her she learned here. I cannot begin to express in words Ari how proud of I am of the woman you’ve become, how proud I am of you of the example you set for our newer students and the women in our Academy and the hurdles you overcame to get here. You have taken every brick thrown at you and built a house with it. Welcome to blackbelt. The journey now begins!
Ariana had this to say on her IG page:
If you really want to do something you will find a way, if not you will find an excuse🤘ðŸ¼
Professor Sav,
I can make a list of accomplishments I achieved because of you and your teachings. I am strong, I am tough, and I am confident, and it’s all because of you. Thank you for treating me like the daughter you never asked for.
Professor Sean,
Thank you for being my first coach. You played a major part in building my foundation and because of you and Professor Sav’s teachings, I have the most basic but effective Jiu Jitsu style that I wouldn’t trade for the world.
Mom & Dad,
Thank you for raising me the way you did. You are my backbone and no matter what happens, I know you two are always behind me.
Kayla, Theresa, & Lawrence,
This belt is all of ours. Never discount your accomplishments. I might be the oldest but you three are my inspiration. I promise to be the best role model I can be.
To all my girls,
You are a lot stronger than you think. Enjoy your journeys and know that I will be right beside you every step of the way.
To all my teammates,
Thank you for bringing out the best version of me. Without you, I wouldn’t be here and always remember;
1. It’s okay to take a break as long as you don’t make it a habit.
2. Embrace that your teammates are going to hold you accountable and call you out when you’re slacking off. When you’re feeling lazy, lean on them to motivate you.
3. Listen to Professor Sav, especially when he says that all you have to do is show up and give it your all. The goal is to get 1% better everyday not to be perfect.
🖤 Coach Ariana
Kearny resident becomes Jiu-Jitsu schools youngest blackbelt ever! What an awesome night last night at Savarese Jiu-Jitsu in Lyndhurst as last night, Kearny resident Leo Alves earned his Jiu-Jitsu blackbelt. It was special for many reasons, along with teammate Ariana Zeppetelli, they became the first 2 blackbelts that started in our kids program. They also became the two youngest black belts ever in our Academy. This one got emotional for me because I watched Leo grow up in the Academy and Leo had to overcome many pitfalls and obstacles to be where he is today. To say this belt was earned is an understatement. Life gave Leo thousands of reasons to quit and never once did he even think about it! For that alone, I don’t know if I’ve ever been more proud of a person. Leo, I am so proud of the amazing young man you’ve become, and more importantly the road you’ve climbed with class and the obstacles that you’ve obliterated along the way. Looking forward to see where your journey goes from here but know I have your back no matter what. Welcome to blackbelt, journey now begins.
Alves had this to say on his IG page “Professor @savaresebjj and I throughout the years. Professor Sav is one of the most respectable men I have met, he is someone who truly practices what he preaches, I have been training under his watchful eye for the last 10 years, I’ve watched him deal with major problems in his life on and off the mats and come out the other end with nothing but growth and a better version of himself, truly leading by example, he showed me what it takes to be someone others can look up to and rely on. I’m super proud to be his student and now his BLACKBELT. Thank you Professor Sav!”
The greatest compliments we could ever receive are the kind words you share with others.